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Time:10:56 am
Current Mood:stressedstressed
Dax and i had yet another fight about cleaning the downstairs again. Dont wish to share all the details right now. I am so upset i dont know what to do. I dont know what to do any more. I love him so much. Sometimes i wonder if i did the right thing by marrying him this soon. But im not complaining. I cant get him to listen to anything i say. He picks what he wants to here. He helps me out alot with cleaning and stuff but he still expects me to do most of it because i am the woman and i only work (about 40 hours a week.) but he works (maybe 12-25 hours a week.) And goes to school three days a week. he has more time than i do because i work 5 days a week about 8 hr. days. he maybe works 4 hr days probably 2-3 days a week if that. Goes to school tuesday and thursday from 9:30-5:00 and monday at 4:30(tutorial class). He is home most of the time. But i do try to keep the house clean. And now i am about to start taking at least one class every semester to get my chore classes out of the way so i can still work full time but be in college at the same time. So he will still be expecting me to do everything. But i still love him. He wasnt this bad when i first moved in. His parents and I are talking on have to basis. We are getting along ok. They still drive me nuts, because they are always saying how dax is an adult but they still call to make sure if he is up to go to work or school. If he misses his first class they are asking arent you supposed to go to class. But they still preach you are an adult, but treat him like a child. I just wish i knew what to do. I mean i hardly have anyone to talk to anymore. I hardly talk to my best friend of 6 years, my friend from, and my husbands female friend is out of the question. I feel alone and i dont know what to do. If anyone wants to know more in detail ill be glad to email you. But i have to go so i will talk to yall later.



Stephie
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starshine320
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Time:2004-11-15 02:17 pm (UTC)
I saw your post from a community we are both in together.....

maybe you and dax can put aside time to "clean together' on the weekends or something? My hubby and I do that, because neither one of us are really all that neat...so on like saturdays or on sundays we tackle like the living room or dining room together and just blast music and stuff. Try to make it more of an "activity" rather than a "chore" ya know? Just a suggestion. :) You'll figure it out! Being newlyweds is a lot of fun, but a lot of adjustment too :)
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